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Here's the case. I'm quite a clubber myself, and regularly patronise clubs over the weekends, drinking myself silly in the process (my faourite quote: "high, not drunk lah"). I've observed different people hunt, white men, asian men, etc with varying degrees of success (lets face it, most guys do). I shan't go into further details on the success rate, though I've noticed the traits in them.
But I've always been kinda curious, what kinda pick ups engages the girls? Or women for that matter. What kinda men captures their attention in clubs, if at all? I suppose by attention we could mean in the physical, emotional (i would think this is a tough one), or to remain relevant to this forum, sexual form.
I understand that its rather dependent on the mood, and of course the men (obviously look better higher success rate lah), etc etc, but anyway I'm throwing the question open to the floor to get detailed responses. I've just always been intrigued by what women think on this subject. But of course men do feel free to contribute.

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Here's the case. I'm quite a clubber myself, and regularly patronise clubs over the weekends, drinking myself silly in the process (my faourite quote: "high, not drunk lah"). I've observed different people hunt, white men, asian men, etc with varying degrees of success (lets face it, most guys do). I shan't go into further details on the success rate, though I've noticed the traits in them.
But I've always been kinda curious, what kinda pick ups engages the girls? Or women for that matter. What kinda men captures their attention in clubs, if at all? I suppose by attention we could mean in the physical, emotional (i would think this is a tough one), or to remain relevant to this forum, sexual form.
I understand that its rather dependent on the mood, and of course the men (obviously look better higher success rate lah), etc etc, but anyway I'm throwing the question open to the floor to get detailed responses. I've just always been intrigued by what women think on this subject. But of course men do feel free to contribute.

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wow that's my line too "high, not drunk!"

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they never do.....

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Jezus. One cuppa milo and I've got two replies. I'll go make my Teh Tarik now. Nice to know there ain't that much to do for you guys on a Wednesday as it is for me. =P Or maybe you guys just came back from a party?
Ay. Nice to find a fellow mate who shares the same line Morbidity, though it takes away that wee little bit of uniqueness from me. Keep the responses flowin people.......

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meanwhile u make more teh tarik..

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wow~~ u veli busy sia~~~ run here n there~~~~~ lolz~~~
remember wat LuCiFer say~~~~ lolz~~~

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those guys who use "Hi" in the clubs whenever a girl walk past.. they sucks.
and those guys who aim you for quite awhile, and try to use those lame pick up line when they approached u later on.. they sucks too.
i perfer those straight forward kind. treat me drink straight away, no question asked, except for "what do you prefer" . no string attached kind. and see how we shall progess later on. If he's not that attraction, i prolly just drink n move on, but if he's a cutie, i probably stay on a little while.

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got car , look good , got $$ , smooth tougue should get you high success rate ?
or when a woman is in the heats?

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can go around to kio free drinks

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pls, i also pay for my own drinks. i dun stinge on such expenses.
i'm not a free loader going everywhere to ask for free drinks la..
i meant.. u know.. some kind of gesture that a guy should treat ladies in da club.

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got car doesn't meant he's loaded ok.

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i agree..im getting a car soon but...im poor -___-

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yar lor

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Hmmm my observation tends to falls in line with DLite's assessment, or rather reaction. Hovering around the prey (ze lady) like a vulture before moving on with some lame pickup line just doesn't seem to cut it out. besides the hovering makes you all shack out. haha. plus i suppose it makes the poor fella look wishy washy, or maybe confused (where am i huh?). seems that most ladies prefer the straight forward approach.
I'm sure plenty of the ladies in the clubs command enough earning power to get the drinks on their own. I suppose the act of buying a drink is just, a gesture of generosity, or perhaps sincerity (as long as the drinks aint' spiked) to get to know the girl? Anyway it seems like the easiest line to use not to look silly in your first attempt..
Eh by the way, I believe the majority of the fancy schmancy sports cars you see roaring down the streets probably still have an outstanding loan of 70%-80% at 3-4% interest yearly. Thats a liability, not asset.
i think the cute factor rates highly among singapore women. both of course make sure your england can make it lah. ok maybe if your target group is a different profile than brush up on your hokkien or cantonese,etc..
oh and funnily enough though, approachin the woman without thinking of getting into their pants, would probably elicit a higher probability of sexual attraction than one who approached with an otherwise opposite objective..

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thought I was unique too...
supposed to go MOS but friends decided to cancel

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guys can try this.. (sharing session.. i very kind ok.. =p)
well.. let say u wanna target a particular girl who is with a bunch of girlfriends, don't approach her first. Approach the ugliest girl in the grp. Befriend the "ugly" girl first.
Meanwhile, the main girl whom u initially would like to approach would be wondering why for goddess sake, u r not approaching her..
And also, key point here is.. girls will always follow their friends. friends say "eeek.. don't talk to this guy" and move away, the main girl will follow suit.
by befriending the "ugly" girl, u will also makes the main girl curious about u. And at the same time, she wouldn't feel that u would want to bed her (just like other guys ard in da club), thus, her guard will be down..
And if u can.. maybe while talking to the "ugly" girl, flash your phone and ask her question via "create msg" from ur phone, and make her reply that msg using your phone. Make sure that the main girl saw what you are doing..
5-10mins later, approach her main girl and ask for her contact number, flashing your phone and let her type her contact number. Ta-da~ u will get her number easily and willingly.
And if end of the night, she asked her "ugly friend" whether she gave you her contact number.. she will be surprise that u actually didn't ask the "ugly friend" for it. Ah.. she will be amaze.
guys who try this method, can feedback to me.. thanks..

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Mmm....sound pretty unfair to that poor "ugly friend" leh.....SHe is like kana "used" like that... i dun know....i think the best way is act normal, get to know the whole group instead of the main one ba..

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ya lor....very xu wei (fake).....liddat like quite unscrupulous leh...i think the best is mutual attraction, if not, then dun look to despo ba

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A guy just have to be very handsome with a good physique plus good communication skills to attract girls in the club.
But not alot of people have all 3.
You can make it up with money though.

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