Question:
Pre-martial sex has been heavily discussed..
so now let's discuss about sex after marriage.
For those gals who save their virginity for marriage..
What are the pros and cons?
I'm not trying to promote pre-martial sex here but just wondering how's life after losing your virginity on the wedding night? (u know.. something like the Olden days Chinese Traditional marriage)..
- Would u feel insecure ? As in perhaps u didn't perform up to standard, and your hubby started to stray, etc?
- Would u be more clingy + possessive esp since when u've lost ya virginity to your husband?

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Pre-martial sex has been heavily discussed..
so now let's discuss about sex after marriage.
For those gals who save their virginity for marriage..
What are the pros and cons?
I'm not trying to promote pre-martial sex here but just wondering how's life after losing your virginity on the wedding night? (u know.. something like the Olden days Chinese Traditional marriage)..
- Would u feel insecure ? As in perhaps u didn't perform up to standard, and your hubby started to stray, etc?
- Would u be more clingy + possessive esp since when u've lost ya virginity to your husband?

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eh go hv all the sex you want !!!!
tehn go japan patch back lor... hurhur !!!

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huh?
patch what back?
the hymen? siao ar.. -_-"
what for spend $ on such operation..
just tell hubby honestly will do right?
can save that sum of money for holiday, etc!

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oh ya hor...
nto a bad idea !!!
lolz so just go hv sex all you want !!! next time tell husband honestly can le, still got free holiday~
wahahaha weeeeeee~~~

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i believe that the modern guys would not want to have a virgin bride? so that their future sexual life would be fairly exciting?

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aiya use your hand la..
still must upkeep a girl
nu ren are mafans.... dun want better

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Prefer a non-virgin bride but anything goes.

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Why save when 80% of the above 18 crowd is non-virgin?

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i hv a galfren who saves her virginity til marriage for her hubby, but still, the hubby strayed. haiz...

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Im outdated??
I thought guys are s uckers for virgin brides..
Or did it become..
as long as its still tight, its ok...

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that's staggering...

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i do hope tat my future bride is still virgin

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nah.. there are still some instead of many...

i dun stray so i hope my bride wont stray before..

but then when love is the air, who cares if he/she strays before..

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Ai..
that's the point..
cus i also have a friend like that..

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well the problem wif virgin brides r, some may suffer frm virginitis... or juz plain scared of sex... cos pressure to perform on the wedding nite... rather than slowly easing into the comfort zone thru slow exploration? if this is the case, den the guys will prob feel sian abt it.. though it is absolutely no gd reason to stray... can go for sex therapy one...

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why do i have this feeling that when she is to marry you she would have most likely lost her virginity to you?

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pros of saving virginity till you're married:
-virginity is something special lah, having sex, or rather making love, for the first time should be reserved for your lifelong partner.
-otherwise, you're just conservative lah.
-in case some guy gets you pregnant and dumps you. ):
cons:
-you'll never know if you're having hot sex.
-you can never compare your partner's skills in bed with someone else, hence you don't know if he's good.
-what if your husband turns out to be incapable in bed? too bad, you're stuck with him forever, and don't even consider extra-marital activites if you had stayed a virgin till marriage purely because you're conservative.

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saving virginity for marriage can be compared to waiting for christmas to open the presents under the christmas tree....for those who celebrate christmas, u'll know that a few days b4 christmas, ur parents will begin to wrap up the presents intended for u and ur siblings and lay them under the christmas tree, for those who cannot wait for christmas to open up thier presents, they will secretly open up their gift b4 christmas, yes they will be thrilled for a moment, however as christmas day arrives, u'll find the rest of the siblings who waited till christmas to open up their presents filled with joy n happiness, as expected of the spirit of giving of christmas, however the kid who opened up his present a few days ago will not experience the same joy and happiness as experinced by his siblings....receiving n unwrapping of presents has already lost its meaning for the sorry kid.....which is just like virginity, saving virginity for marriage definitely has a special meaning n expreince to it...isnt it??

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something to look foward to on the wedding night?
BIG night LEH!

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