Question:
as above:
1) why is it that guys feel the need to ask whether their gfs Had any sexual relationships even when they won't like what they hear?
2) Anyone knows a rough estimate of girls and guys who are no longer virgins?
3) Nobody seems to be afraid of STDs anymore, is it rare that anyone would request their bfs/gfs to be tested for STDs before having sex?
4) Are we really as open as we are on this forum in real life about sex and the like? I assume we are no longer prudish about premarital sex.

Answer:
as above:
1) why is it that guys feel the need to ask whether their gfs Had any sexual relationships even when they won't like what they hear?
2) Anyone knows a rough estimate of girls and guys who are no longer virgins?
3) Nobody seems to be afraid of STDs anymore, is it rare that anyone would request their bfs/gfs to be tested for STDs before having sex?
4) Are we really as open as we are on this forum in real life about sex and the like? I assume we are no longer prudish about premarital sex.

Answer:

Kinda like to understand better what kinda sexual experience u have ... So to better expect what to get..

what i know is 50% of my friends are still virgin...(Both pretty/handsome and ugly)
I dun think so unless the gal really horny to zzz ard every other day...

I am open in real life too depending on the crowd ....

Answer:

1) curiosity?
2)
3) It depends on how much u trust the guy/girl, rite?
4) Eh.. i wld just speak 4 myself.. i dun condone ONS & flings but pre-marital sex is erm acceptable i guess??

Answer:

1. this is e problem that lies in human. so unexplainable. somehow its ego. the other partner will normally says.. "u are e best among all"..blablabla.
2.i not sure ur estimation is abt the whole world or among our own frens..shud be 40%?
3. it is certainly rare. u are doubting someone innocence quite hurting i guess.
4. i'm not sure whether they are open anot. but i am open to it.
2 cents.

Answer:
i am a V. HEhe

Answer:

1) for ego? or jus to learn from each other's experience?
2) not sure...ard 40-50%?
3) depends if ur partner is virgin or not n his/her history...but to me...i believe in testing for such things before marriage n every half to a yr after marriage...its not abt not trusting...its abt responsibility...wat if u got preg then noe got STD?
4) i think its half half...there r pple who can say such things in forums but cant accept tat in real life...depends on individual....
for me, i condemn ONS & prostitution (those attached)...but pre-marital sex, i am okie...

Answer:

1)they wld juz like to get to know more abt u, for me i dun mind, i listen wif an open heart
2) i dun bother to ask this kinda qns coz itz not essential n itz not an interesting qns.
3)this qns can be linked to the 1st in order to feel safe abt hving sex wif u.
4)i'm always truthful n open to anything, thatz life.

Answer:

1) for comparison to see who's better
2) no idea
3)its difficult to ask ur other half to do it.. cos its about trust..
4)i am.. not sure bout the others...

Answer:
1) there is always this feeling among most guys that they hope that their girl, the one who they are going to marry, is a virgin whom they will consider pure that is worthy of their love. yes, society may be open now, but it's juz natural deep within us that we wan someone who is 'clean' to spend the rest of the days with. this totally contradicts *******s who wanted virgins but go ard screwing pple
2) as above, i believe there are more virgin girls than guys, cause guys hav almost nothing to lose.
3)Yep it's not common, but it's the person's responsibility to get tested so they will engage in sex safe and secured
4) really depend on the person, i am what i am u see in the forum... i dun comment much in genk bang :p

Answer:

1) coz guys want to get virgins to be their gf.. but somehow they din realise tat they wont be getting anymore virgins if they go on looking for virgins to b their gf n den deflower them.
2) quite a number i think..
3) i think, if nber anyhow to haf sex with strangers or those "ppl", the percentage of getting std is not tat high lor.
4) nowadays ppl r quite open.. anyway.. its the trend now lor.. not only the asian countries, the western countries are worse..