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wat if u realised u are infertile?i.e low sperm count or can't bear children.
will this affect ya relationship?
who will feel inferior?
then what's next?
tru e great wonder of medical science or adoption?

oh ultimate question to guys-will u try to change ya wife if u realised that she's the one having problem???
and gals...as well..vice versa..
cheers

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wat if u realised u are infertile?i.e low sperm count or can't bear children.
will this affect ya relationship?
who will feel inferior?
then what's next?
tru e great wonder of medical science or adoption?

oh ultimate question to guys-will u try to change ya wife if u realised that she's the one having problem???
and gals...as well..vice versa..
cheers

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if i really love him dun think will mind so much ba...

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hMm, if he has low sperm count it's alright to me. Cos the person i really need more ish my partner instead of my children so it doesn really matters to me...

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u dun mind but ur other half will of cos feel inferio one lor

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if 1 of us infertile...i will seek medical consultation...see can use those "ren gong shou yun" anot or other methods...if still cannot work...then i dunno wad to do...will be quite depressed coz i would love to have kids of my own...adoption i think out of the question.

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i guess if both partners reallie wants kids, guess they might have to choose medical treatment or adoption...personally I'm not a kid person so if me or partner is infertile, its not impt as long as I'm with her the rest of my life as I dun see kids in my long term horizon now....
no, will not change partner if she's the one...
well the only upside I can see from this issue is tat u dun have to worry abt "accidents" happening

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on surface they might pretend love conquers all.
but deep down, it is not the case.
who doesnt want kids of their own. haiz.

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i don't.
kids or no kids, i have no preference.
if i'm blessed with changing diaperz daily, breastfeeding till my nips are sore, listen to high-pitched wailings every nite, having milk puked onto my blouse.. then i'll gladly take it.
if not.. i'll enjoy sex daily with my husband.
the only cries u hear are pleasurable moans...


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easy to say then done :o

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these things depends bah, if both parties wont mind den it's alright for them to live w/o having babies or children...

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If i had fertility problem, i'd be damn inferior. If my partner leaves me for another woman, i have nothing to say.
If he was the one with the problem, i seriously wouldn't know what to do. I can't possibly abandon him and go get another man. It's just heartless.
I would love to have kids of my own. I don't want adoption to be one of the options.
Hopefully, this kind of problem won't happen on me. I'd be at a loss.

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well might be quite taken aback in the start if i'm the one with the problem. but i hope to take it ezily i don't mind adoption don't see a problem with that .. impt part is to raise the child properly. if my wife is the one with the prob.. well maybe will try to make it known to her that its ok with me and i don't mind and she shouldn't take it to heart too and since my mum is an open minded person i think she should be ok with it.

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Words come easier than actions..All couples will have to take their wedding vows say what go through thick and thin together..Then in the end some couples also end up divorcing...
Some pple might say they don't mind at first..But finally they will still change their mind..haha..Don't know why also..
If the problem lies in me..i confirm will feel inferior..
If the problem lies in my partner,i definitely 100% guarantee don't mind..
I rather i'm the problem than she is cos if she has the problem she'll definitely will be very stressed and pressurized...

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won't die without children right?
Must be loving to each other. Anyway I don't like babies
Hahaha. I must consider

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i will luv to have childrenz with the person whom i luv!! but then if realli cannot have them in the NATURAL way.. i would consult a doc n make sure we produce 1 baby ~

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erm...personally dun like children..from years ago till now still dun like children.Would prefer spending time with my wife to be or friends instead of commiting urself to raising a child..
So if im infertile(Just low sperm count but still can erect),i would be quite ok with it.Still can save on the contraceptive..If i marry my present gf,it would be even better coz she hates children more than i do...haha

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Actually I've ever discussed this with my bf before. I dun mind adoption..but he thinks that adoption will not be his option. He feels that after all..that is not your own blood and flesh. He feels that cannot have babies then dun have lor. He still love me all the same. These kind of things cannot be forced. If we are not fated to be blessed with a child, so be it. We will try all means..like medical and stuff..but cannot then nevermind. He say better bah..just he and me..when he retire liao (he wanna retire young if he can make it big..meaning earn big bucks as he has alot of plans for the future). the two of us just go travel around the world.
But then..unless faced with this kind of situation..we never know what we will do. I think, if it's my problem..I'll definitely feel very bad..cos his dad only got one son (got two daughters lah)..and I was like hoping to at least have a son (call me tradition..but I still think should have a son to carry the family name ). I think I would still prefer adoption if I can't have children..cos I love little children.

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How about tis ?
The only male child is infertile or whose wife is infertile? Cant carry on the family line ?
Being stress by son's parents ?? Wat options would u rather go for ?

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if cant haf children the natural way, den of coz seek medical treatment or sth like tat lor..
if still cant, den last resort will b adoption, but will definitely treat the child as though he/she our own child..

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hmm...ever considering using other pple's sperms ?