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This thread is not to aim at u guys but i just wonder of is it that important and compulsory to sleep with ur gf???? i talked to few of my guy friends and they told mi a straight 'Yes'.
Some guys even thought of sleeping around when they have a gf. can't believe such guys do exist.
seems to me that some guys can't live w/o sleeping with girls and that really disgust mi.

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This thread is not to aim at u guys but i just wonder of is it that important and compulsory to sleep with ur gf???? i talked to few of my guy friends and they told mi a straight 'Yes'.
Some guys even thought of sleeping around when they have a gf. can't believe such guys do exist.
seems to me that some guys can't live w/o sleeping with girls and that really disgust mi.

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love-deprived females might go on par with that phrase..

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I can't stand guys like that.

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if you are a GUY than you would know how we feel... you think we want this to happen arh.. GOD made us this way mah. you have to be in our shoes if you really wanna know why are we like that.
lets say you girls... your period come suddenly.. you cannot stop it or prevent yourself from bleeding right. you cannot control your period right. ITS ALL NATURAL!

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Okok. I get your point. Don't get so worked up lar.
But it's like, not all guys are like that right?

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i hope not all guys are like that..
i dun think sleeping ard is right at all...
hmm..

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hmmm... no girls want guys like that .. but that's NATURE hmmm- nods nods

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hMm, to me nOt really all guys wanna slp wit their galz bah...those more decent de wont really liddat. as for those who wanna slp around when they had a gF, den really too...eRm... *cOmMeNtLeSs*

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if not needs juz go to gf can liao..
wat for slp ard leh?

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sca li gf don wan gibe den they go to other galz... =X

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can sleep with gf then sleep lohz if cannot then dun force!

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natural wan what.

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natural to slp ard?
omg..

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i think cos if both in a room hug a bit kiss a bit den horny liao bah. hahaha i oso dunno leh~ i guess older guys tend to sleep with their gfs.

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all guys want is sex?

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hmm...
men will do anything for sex, even love..
women will do anything for love, even sex..

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tat's the differences between guys and girls ma..
or else all the same thinking and needs, isn't tat too boring liao?
guys born out is to let girls scold one!

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oh pls...
are you guys, using nature as an excuse, for your sexual explorations with your girlfriends???
are you sure this is the right excuse you gonna use, when you're say... 25???
tell a girl that you gotta sleep with her cause 1 - she's your girl 2 - you can't help it...
ever learnt how to masturbate???
geez

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for your info,
women have periods, mensus, cause of physical changes,, their 'eggs' don't last forever, at most 30 days... when the 'egg' dies, their bodies will respond, and flush out the dead egg, replacing it with a new one
this 'flushing', can be considered regular maintence... men and women have evolved since the days of the ape men... as creatures who do not bathe... and as you know, the vagina is not like your ass, or your ****, which has a muscle, or in the case of a ****, too small a hole, for dirt particles to enter, or to prevent dirt particles from entering...
when a woman reaches her period, her body fluids will flush out any dirt particles that are left, by you, out from deep inside of her body... keeping her clean...
your **** however, does not go thru any change, when you come to a time where you feel you need to flush out your sperm... god didn't create you to keep on having sex... god gave you a solution to that need... to masturbate...
y don't you try, masturbating say...
8 times a day???
give it 10 days... 80 ejeculations...
and we'll see if you wanna touch another girl again...
pls don't disgrace us guys, such excuses are naive...
there are ways to get a girl to sleep with you... ways ranging from sleeping with any girl off the streets, to getting your girlfriend to sleep with you whenever you want to.. or heck... ways to sleep with any girl in this forums too...
get smart, learn how to play the game...
and you'll nvr have to resort to lying again...

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my answer to your question is...
yes, it is IMPORTANT AND COMPULSORY to sleep with your girfriend...
but NO, with your girl, you must NEVER engage in sex OUTSIDE of your relationship...
i'll explain...
a couple, NOT JUST THE GUY, must have sex for the following reasons:
1 - acceptance
2 - defination
3 - bonding
4 - relationship maintainence
in nature, when a couple forms... they allow each other into their personal spaces... like dogs, when they urine to mark their areas, a couple has sex to allow each other into their own personal spaces... it's more of a symbol, in this case... you prob. wun understand it till you experience it... but anyway, read on it gets juicer...
2 - defination
wat's the difference, between a good friend, a buddy, and a boyfriend?
you can confine your feelings, your desires, your ambitions in your good friend... you can hug or place your head on your buddie's shoulders... your buddy can be there in your time of need... infact... you can do everything decent with your buddy... so wats a boyfriend for?
a boyfriend, is somebody who takes on the positions of your good friend, your best friend, your buddy, all in one...
so why boyfriend, and not buddy?
cause you sleep with him.
and why do you do a thing like that?
quote from the show vanilla sky, she says this best...
when you sleep with somebody, you don't say it, but your body does, it's a promise that you will be together, no matter what
and it's a promise that says, that there'll be no affairs, no engagement of sex or any form of sex, outside of the relationship
3 - bonding
read defination
4 - relationship maintainence
you prob. never experience this b4, but i did...
i was in a relationship before, where we quarrrelled more oftenly then we spoke to each other...
sometimes, when 1 party is in the wrong, and cause of ego sake, doesn't want to admit mistake... he or she, sleeps initiates sex with the partner...
if the other partner goes ahead with it, they show to each other that they're willing to put past arguments behind them...
this form of sex, is called make-up sex...
then again, there are other forms...
routine sex
where a couple sleeps together, as a vow, again, to keep their promises to each other
then there's the
purpose sex
where 1 party, sleeps with the other, for a purpose...
say they wanna jump straight into a relationship
or as a surprise...
it's a neat trick i usually use...
prepare the house, use candles, music, scents...
make it romantic...
n give her the best sex she'll ever enjoy in awhile...
the trick?
keep her wanting more...
if she keeps on wanting to have sex like this... she wouldn't leave me for another guy... and even if she does... she'll return 1 day... cause i'm THE man who creates all th sparkles in her body... the feeling she'll NEVER have with another man...
tt's why they say, all players must have a signature move
watch friends?
listen to how joey talks to other guys, about how he gets women back using his signature move...
understand it now?
is it still disgusting?
or is it simpily naive to think like that?
my say is, you'll never understand till somebody opens your world...
i used to think like that once... infact, all the way in sec sch, i never dated any girls... i was the biggest hotshot in sch, everybody knew me, i was popular with all the girls... but heck, girls are trouble... i've got guys... we do all those shit you don't do with girls...
but 1 day, this girl, took the initiave to start paging me, start talking to me, start calling me out, eventually start having sex on a regular basis with me...
that started me thinking...
why did she, as a girl, as the hottest girl in my level, risk everything she had, to do something like this, for me? when i should be the 1 doing it for her...
think about it