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Guys, if ur bf haf been together wib u for a few yrs > 1 yr and he has a bery close female female buddy. One whom he will always confide in when he is sad and met problems wib u. Then one day u discover tat he like her bt he also couldn't define wat the "liking" is. Definitely not love and crush. Bt dunno wat. the thing is he had intimate intercourse wib her behind ur back. Wat would u do and feel? U know tat ger too and quite good terms wib her.
and guys out there, haf this ever happen to u b4 and why does such thing happen? Is it really impossible for pple of the opposite sex to be juz purely good friends and haf no other feelings?

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Guys, if ur bf haf been together wib u for a few yrs > 1 yr and he has a bery close female female buddy. One whom he will always confide in when he is sad and met problems wib u. Then one day u discover tat he like her bt he also couldn't define wat the "liking" is. Definitely not love and crush. Bt dunno wat. the thing is he had intimate intercourse wib her behind ur back. Wat would u do and feel? U know tat ger too and quite good terms wib her.
and guys out there, haf this ever happen to u b4 and why does such thing happen? Is it really impossible for pple of the opposite sex to be juz purely good friends and haf no other feelings?

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i believe it's possible to have a close friend of the opposite sex. but close =?? how close den will not be too close to arouse jealousy in ur other half? it's a difficult level to define really.
what do u mean by intimate intercourse? sexual? or just putting hands over shoulders when talking? all this will have to depend loh.

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Its really possible to have a good fren of the opposite sex.just pure frens and nothing else.really trust me.
However whether the frenship will last the ever gossips behind it,thats another problem.
Its not right to deprive u/ur bf/gf of frens of the oppsite sex
However,what do u mean by having intimate intercouse????sex?? u got to be specific abt this....

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i also hv the same question ..

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can....perhaps sometime in time oth may feel somethin fer each other, but as long as de feelin is kept down, nothin will happen, n once past tat stage can be real PURE gd frens...

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erm. ya if like sexual intercourse like tat leh.

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huh! haha...tat i dunno le....but i dun think FRENS can haf sexual intercourse ba.....

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When ppl gets loney, sad, or drunk... Stuffs can happen ma.. It happens quite often. =p

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mayb i can be ur 1st frend tt can haf sexual intercoz?!
keke..

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No_nick: dun pervert wib the gers here la.
Erm....i tink no matter wat u sad or wat u shouldn't do tis kind of thing behind ur gf's back lohz esp when u 2 haf been together for such a long time. How cum can so easily like another ger? w/r she is ur good friend or not. Muz remember ur status lohz... Guys are so fickled minded when it cums to relationship. Gers are always the one who lose out:aargh:

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close fren stil can accept but........sexual intercourse wif them............too much liao..........:angryfire :angryfire

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well..... it is possible to have a good friend with opp sex...
Well my ex used to jealous because of that... i and my good friend also very close to each other... but i can swear i got no other feeling except for just friend....

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den both of them are definitely not good friends liao. having sex with someone changes ur relationship with him/her. they may not be bf or gf. but they definitely are not good friends. usually there will be 3 outcomes to guy and girl having sex
1) they dun keep in contact anymore.
2) bf/gf relationship
3) sexual friends. not good friends. they come together for one main motive. sex

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i personally have a very gd guy fren.. i think we cant develop tat kind of feeling lor.. cos if u 2 can develop should develop long ago n nt until now ma.... den i imagine he is my f i find so WEIRD!! he oso finds it too..

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its possible ...it not hard actually ...
coz if u noe tat fren .. u will noe ur fren good and bad point ...
after knowing that, maybe its not possible to be a couple ...
so remain as friends ...
and being frenz has it good point .. as the frenship will last a long time ...
how long can a r/s last ?
how often do u see a couple at this age last until marriage ?
but frenship ... it can last forever ~
=)

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Guys are so fickled minded when it cums to relationship. Gers are always the one who lose out
<<---- now this is a serious understatement...
Erm...i dun think that frens have sex jux like this..never heard of.Only seen in movies