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Manz...can anyone tolerate this ?
Say for example...he/she got drunk...and they had sex with their say...gd frens or frens or something...coz they're both drunk.
he/she confessed to u and admitted how sorry he/she is. would anyone accept this ?
okok here's another scenario:
she got drunk...someone brought her to the back lane for a quickee...would u accept this either ?
she was sad.....and walked alone....knowing clearly its a dark and lonely path....with NO peeps walking around...she still kept walking on, reason being "too sad to care" than she got raped.
would u forgive her ?
seriously speaking...sad to say. i cannot forgive my gf...in any of the cases above...
any more scenarios u guys can think abt ? anything to share ?
however...i can forgive my gf for losing it to her ex before me and her went together....
coz its like even if i'm not the first...doesn't mean i can't love her that sorta shit.

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Manz...can anyone tolerate this ?
Say for example...he/she got drunk...and they had sex with their say...gd frens or frens or something...coz they're both drunk.
he/she confessed to u and admitted how sorry he/she is. would anyone accept this ?
okok here's another scenario:
she got drunk...someone brought her to the back lane for a quickee...would u accept this either ?
she was sad.....and walked alone....knowing clearly its a dark and lonely path....with NO peeps walking around...she still kept walking on, reason being "too sad to care" than she got raped.
would u forgive her ?
seriously speaking...sad to say. i cannot forgive my gf...in any of the cases above...
any more scenarios u guys can think abt ? anything to share ?
however...i can forgive my gf for losing it to her ex before me and her went together....
coz its like even if i'm not the first...doesn't mean i can't love her that sorta shit.

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aiyoyo.. if she kena raped cos she walked in a dark alley... den cant blame her ar... she is so depressed herslef le u still ilke tt treat her, wait she kill herslef ar.. budden if she is involved in sexual intercourse cos she is drunk, den it is not forgivable lor... tts wad i tink lar...

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n hor, since she is ur ger, u sld hv responsiblity to tk care of her n not let het walk in a lonely n dark st alone mar.. u r her bf leh.. sld protect her!!! hee..

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duhx...lolx, me say say mahz...lolx.....so fierce !! :X

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if this happens to me...
i wun be happy about it...
he is unfaithful to me...
he'll lose my trust tt i have in him...
I always drink alot...(getting drunk, getting high till i talk nonsense) BUT i always know wat am i doing! I also know how to take care of myself! And i know how to go home after tt!
i dun like my bf to worry for me...
he allow me to go out late with my frens...
i know tt he trust me in watever stuff tt i am doing and i thank him for tt...
i wun betray his trust cause its really difficult getting it and trust k be easily taken away frm u once u done something wrong!
Douglas: its all about trust!

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And unfortunately, i can't offer my girls trust.

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if she goes drinking session....offer to send her hm lo....
if she sad...y go wat alley....pei her come out n let her vent anger or pour out sorrow lo...

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ya i refering to she sad she HERSELF go walk there without telling u...after kenna raped le than tell u....what'll u do ?

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i tink it will take a very long time 4 me 2 4give him if he was drunk... i may 4give him i may not... depends on how i hear the story lor... even if i 4give him.. veri loooong..

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when something happens, it becomes very hard to forgive.

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I tink sumhow even if i ever managed 2 forgive him , after he farked sum slut wen they both gt drunk..., i tink our relationship wld somehow end oso...
cuz i tink i wld b 2 hurt n btrayed ....
gettin drunk ish no excuse 2 fark ard lorz....
ne way,i wld NEVER EVER 4give my bf if he does tt 2 me..
i wld b heart-broken but i wld nv b able 2 face him n love him like b4...
Just looking at him ..wld bring back horrible memories ...
it wld b 2 painful 4 me 2 cont' e relationship lor..

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eeee..
i hate gers who drink..
lolz..

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i'll hold her
i'll comfort her
i'll take care of her
but the r/ship will nv b the same again...

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If kena raped and can catch the man who did the dirty
i would personally make sure the man suffer
but if its not the case then would just let her go
since shes not meant to be mine in the first place

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hai i taste this feeling before...... the ger i luv most confess to me .............THE FEELING SUCKSSSSSSSSS FARK THE RAPIST , ITS HAPPEN AT TAPS , BOATquAY. MOTHER ****ER SHIT RAPIST PLACE .EVEN THought WE STead and break after 8 mths,some THINGS CANNOt bE forgetten. phylogical damage too DEEp already. _|_ FOR ALL RAPIST AND ONS DRUNK CHEAPOS ****S !

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My bf's ex got raped....
pt is.. i tink she was the one who raped e guy...

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if he got drunk and slept with another gal..... its the end i think....
i will no longer trust him....

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yeah cuz he might "get-drunk-n-sleep-wif-another-gal" againz..
n againz...n againz....

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hmmm... i sld say... in ger's view u should no matter wat accept and forgive her... as she was pitiful enough to kanna rape le... so cant push any blame on her...
but in other hand.. guy's view... even if drunk, TRUE that u didnt have much strength but SURE there is still clear state of mind..
i'm a lady but in this senario, i agree with the men...[ no offence to anyone]:alcoholic

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feeling will never be the same again...
that's why pple say, ignorance is bliss.