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Originally Posted by smndrummer Lol!
- Rich You think he's joking??

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Originally Posted by bottoni Why not? It worked for the Boston Strangler. By the way, LOL! Good point.
- Rich

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Originally Posted by bottoni Everyone who listed Shycat as a 'BN Crush' please get out your Secret Decoder Ring:
Ancel-cay Eration-Ophay Ycat-shay. Eapeat-ray: Ancel-cay Eration-ophay Ycat-shay. Ycat-shay oesn't-day ike-lay omantic-ray urprises-say.
ROFLMAO! It's true, I don't like surprises.

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Originally Posted by Shycat ROFLMAO! It's true, I don't like surprises. Me neither. Now if someone wants to do something for me that's great...but I'd like some advanced warning!

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Seems most people think it's too.... extreme, but I like it.
The only problem, though, is that it's meant for people in an actual relationship.
This is something that might make her fall for you, and you've already said that the long distance can't work out.
Whereas you might be okay with it, she might not be able to get her head off of you or move on.
Personally, I don't know what kind of a girl she is, but I'd be cautious about making such a strong, typically romantic move on a person you don't plan on having a relationship with.

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Oh, yeah, and I just wanted to add that it's not good for her to be crazy about you.
It sounds nice, especially to you, but that's dwelling on something that's either very unlikely or impossible.
Try to keep it at a "just friends" level.
She needs to move on to someone closer, both emotionally and physically.
In my personal opinion, you need to kind of let her go.
Unless the both of you are fine dreaming of what you could be if distance weren't a factor, you need to stray away from moves that could indicate "I still want you."

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I'd get her a bottle of Spring Flower instead of actual flowers. It's more personal- anyone can buy flowers, but who on earth would ever give her that beautiful pink bottle? Also, she will always associate that smell with that particular morning. S.F. puts a huge smile on every girl I've seen smell it. And for goodness sakes don't tell her how much it costs.
-ben

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Originally Posted by Bakerloo Line ...The little blurb you wrote in your initial post (below) is perfect - send it with some flowers or even just a card. Follow up later in the day with a phone call.
"No matter how far, no matter how much, I'm here for you. No matter what our relationship is." Perfect. I was thinking a nice card (maybe even handmade and/or personalized) that expresses your feelings for her in a direct, honest way.
I love the romanticism of your idea, but it might be a little too over the top given the current state of your relationship.

That's my half cent. Good luck. Hope everything works out well in both yours and her favor.
-Sloan

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Originally Posted by greyhueofdoubt S.F. puts a huge smile on every girl I've seen smell it. And for goodness sakes don't tell her how much it costs.
-ben
You've just never seen me.

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Originally Posted by bottoni Originally Posted by bottoni
Everyone who listed Shycat as a 'BN Crush' please get out your Secret Decoder Ring:
Ancel-cay Eration-Ophay Ycat-shay. Eapeat-ray: Ancel-cay Eration-ophay Ycat-shay. Ycat-shay oesn't-day ike-lay omantic-ray urprises-say. Originally Posted by Shycat ROFLMAO! It's true, I don't like surprises. Who the hell gave you a Secret Decoder Ring?