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Good tune, Fred. Here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpP38SbF_Z8
Don't really have the time to scour for a better version at the moment.

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here's what was released on the album accompanied by a slide show
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vT0hhol1Gfc
there was no MTV yet at the time. The first pressing of the record, the bands second album, (the first had nothing to distinguish it) has alice using his finger to stick out of his costume from his crotch. The second and subsequent releases omit this, making the first a valuable collectors item.

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My 2 cents.
You're still young, but you've obviously got a wise head on those shoulders, and concentrating on those grades is the best thing you can do right now.
Yes, you've had a rough past, but it sounds more to me like you're just not ready for a relationship. And that being the case, don't rush into anything.
I didn't have a boyfriend until I went to university, even though all my friends did. If the right person comes along, you'll know. Just don't date someone for the sake of it, and certainly don't feel pressurised into sex just because your peers are doing it. You'll know instinctively when it's right.

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Rich, you sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders, and it sounds like you want to do the right thing. You're still young, you have time to figure things out. Plan for the future and take good care of yourself, and make sure that you treat others with fairness and respect.
I think it was hurtful for your friend to self-diagnose you as having attachment disorder. That's just bullshit. People who try to self-righteously diagnose you without having any experience are doing it for their own ego and self-gratification. If anything, she's "transferring" her own bullshit onto you. I'd ignore her.
I think that you should focus on school, taking good care of yourself and treating yourself with respect, treating others with respect, and getting good grades.You know what everyone says about opinions, though. If I were you, I would focus on balance. Get enough sleep, don't use drugs, go to class and study, meditate, and exercise. You might also consider seeing a therapist, just for your own benefit to get things sorted out. You don't have to tell anyone about it, especially not Ms. Self Righteous Amateur Psychiatrist. Especially if drug and alcohol problems run in your family, it might be wise to avoid them.
The only person you need to forgive is YOURSELF. You and your sister were children, and children need love and affection, and there's no reason to beat yourself up over that. I am very close with my twin sister and our younger sister, and I cannot imagine how traumatic it had to have been for you and your sister to grow up without your mom. the story about your sister rushing out to the mailbox around her birthday made me cry.
You and your sister sound like you've turned out okay despite having suffered as children. The important thing is that you two want to learn from the bad experiences and become better people instead of wallowing in self pity.
Keep your chin up, Rich. *hugs*

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fredricktoo, alcoholism does run about in my family, quite rampantly. My grandparents on my dad's side were both alcoholics, my dad was, my mom was, and my mom's parents were both hardcore alcoholics. On my dad's side, alcoholism didn't ruin any body's life. Except my mom's, and by association, that nearly ruined my dad's life. Me and my sister both drink, but she doesn't drink very often. The last drink I had was three nights ago, a shot of Captain, and before that I can't remember. It wasn't traumatic growing up without a mom, it was however disheartening growing up with a mom who was fried.
- Rich

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DearGodStopNow. Rich, you are playing with fire if you continue drinking. Alcoholism runs heavily in my family as well--so my parents were tee-totalers and taught we five kids to be the same (my father wasn't faithful for a solid year until he hit sixty.) We still all did drink a bit sooner or later but only one is acoholic. One gambles seriously. Two became drug addicts (me! on prescription pain meds three years ago.) The last one drinks whiskey neat but apparently not to excess and is married to a violent and abusive alcoholic.
An ounce of prevention is worth $50,000 dollars I spent on rehab and therapy!
The problem with finding one's limits is that to find a limit one must reach it, and for addicts/alcoholics there's NO RETURN.

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Originally Posted by _R$_ fredricktoo, alcoholism does run about in my family, quite rampantly. My grandparents on my dad's side were both alcoholics, my dad was, my mom was, and my mom's parents were both hardcore alcoholics. On my dad's side, alcoholism didn't ruin any body's life. Except my mom's, and by association, that nearly ruined my dad's life. Me and my sister both drink, but she doesn't drink very often. The last drink I had was three nights ago, a shot of Captain, and before that I can't remember. It wasn't traumatic growing up without a mom, it was however disheartening growing up with a mom who was fried.
- Rich and you know alchoholism is a disease that can be treated. It will take balls to go to a group meeting and find you're not alone Your shoulders will either take the load or not. I took the load just to show God that I could take life as it comes and try to help where I could. What do I have to show for it. My kids want nothing to do with me. They're tired of hearing me explode........
I'm just rambling here. I don't know your background, where you came from. Whiskey was given to the Indians in this country and they had that gene that allows one to keep getting drunk every day till organ failure.......
I don't have it. If someone told me there would never be any booze in my life it wouldn't make a difference......
I like cologne
I can only type so much...